Are you feeling it? That longing for simplicity and joy in the midst of running around like mad trying to keep up with the season? What is on your wish list? I have a feeling it’s not something from a department store. Most everyone is feeling the pressure of producing lovely Christmas memories on an increasingly smaller budget, while of course the dollars we get hold less and less value. Time to take a deep breath and think about all the things that make you smile at Christmas time. Here are some of my favorites. (Cliche warning! If you venture beyond this paragraph don’t say I didn’t warn you.)
Enjoying the views of Wisconsin winter from our house on the hill.
Off to the woods to cut down our tree. Okay, the woods aren’t ours. They belong to the Christmas tree farms. We’re lucky to have so many beautiful places here in Wisconsin. This year we got ours extra early so no snow . . .
Our tree filled with memories of a lifetime.
Christmas carols. We all have our favorites. Here are some of mine:
That Spirit of Christmas by Ray Charles
Blue Christmas by Elvis Presley
December Child by Cyndi Lauper
A Baby Just Like You by John Denver
Christmas Canon by Trans-Siberian Orchestra
Music Box Blues by Trans-Siberian Orchestra (anything by these amazing people!)
Bluegrass, White Snow by Patty Loveless
Santa Train by Patty Loveless
Suzy Snowflake by Rosemary Clooney
Frosty the Snowman by Fiona Apple
Face of Love by Jewel
Here was a Man by Johnny Cash
Cool Yule by Louis Armstrong
Winter Song by Sara Bareilles & Ingrid Michaelson
Winter Light by Linda Rondstadt
Mary Had a Little Lamb by Garth Brooks
Beautiful Star of Bethlehem by Patty Loveless
Go, Tell It On the Mountain by BarlowGirl
I Saw Mommy Kissing Santa Claus by Jimmy Boyd
What Child is This by Tanya Tucker
While Roving on a Winter’s Night by Darol Anger
Making cookies with the kids. It’s always a mess and there’s usually yelling at some point. This is actually an old Easter picture but you’ll get the idea of the craziness. Don’t worry. No human mouths touched his finished cookies.
Christmas cards, a dying tradition I just can’t let go. I save all of my favorite cards and dream over them during the season. What a sap I know. But don’t knock it. It’s a great way to relax and simply enjoy beauty–no standing around in an expensive art museum, plus you can drink hot cocoa if you promise not to spill.
Handmade gifts. When we were young newlyweds, we made most of our presents for family members. Nowadays I try to at least make ornaments for all of our kids and grandkids each Christmas. Here is one I made in 2008 using an old greeting card and painted cardboard.
Finding gifts in unexpected places. My daughters and I love to spend the entire year keeping our eyes open for presents at rummage sales, Goodwill, St. Vinny’s and small thrift shops. No amount of mall shopping could have unearthed this little treasure. Does anybody know more about these beautiful containers? I’m picturing a little granny with her crochet hook . . . The cards all have a similar look. I’d love to know who the artist is.
Attempts to get all the grandkids in front of the tree and smiling at the same time. We came close in 2006!
Remembering the excitement of getting ready for Christmas when my girls were little. I can still smell their little shampooed heads. My doll babies.
Wishing all the hurt away. Let us remember the beauty of Christmas can be a source of great pain for many people. But don’t stop celebrating because we have sadness and worry. Just add a little compassion and gentleness to your gift list. It’s the ultimate gift you can afford to give everybody, even yourself. It’s free and personal. It’s the original Christmas gift, recycled for over 2000 years.